The good news is, unlike , we now have the Internet as an option for dating. I have heard from many lesbians of all ages that they have met their partners online. Another great way to meet lesbians is to get involved with activities that interest you. Certainly going to a bar is not for everyone, especially people who have issues with alcohol. There are many other great places to meet lesbians. Plus, just getting out, you will feel better about yourself and stop focusing so much on how hard it is to meet women.